My thought this morning

For a very long time I was told serving God was majorly "church work ", and I went along with It until not to long ago. I'm a very inquisitive christian, because I believe God will never call us to a fruitless life. John 15:5 makes us understand Jesus is the Vine and we are the branches and from my  little knowlege of how trees grow, the vine does not bear fruits, only the branches...so I had questions, 'cause I wondered whywho were not really known in church had more results than those in every " subunit"...? And of course if you ask God genuine questions ( without complaints) He'll never leave you without answers...He made me understand that it is the "renewing" of ones mind through His word that makes you think like Him and eventually, produce results. Dear christian, it doesn't matter what church activities you're engaged in, if your mind is not renewed by the Word of God(I don't care what testimonies people come to share of how they did some church activities and got money, etc.) You cannot get results. Infact, very soon, you'll start sharing false testimonies(yeah people do!)...I repeated; JESUS CANNOT BEAR FRUITS ON THE EARTH EXCEPT THROUGH US.

Why we act the way we do?

What I've come to know as the very honest truth is that adult behaviours are in no way separate from childhood experiences. I have heard people say that we are the architect of our destinies (which is true). But whether we like it or not, parents, aunties, uncles and other relatives that bring up children, laid the foundation of whatever a child had turned out to become. The knowledge of this would help people know whether it is worth engaging in "activities" that would bring a child to the world.

Yes! Everyone would answer for themselves, but should parents and wards keep making the same mistakes of churning out "miscreants" in society just because they would have to answer for themselves? Why don't you help them answer correctly?

One thing that has  improved my relationship with my fellows( as I used to be very judgemental) is my work with children. It has made me understand that we have different experiences, we learn differently and our interests must not always be the same. Very importantly, I also  understand, as it is with children, a push to succeed is not one particular way; we need to know what works for each person...

TO BE CONTINUED

"The truth is, people are the way they are for a reason. If we would take time to know their stories, we would be much more forgiving" - Joel Osteen

My start up blog post!

This is the situation of most ladies. One would wonder what went wrong😱

"My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 20 years and
we have two children whom he takes full responsibility for.
We’ve discussed marriage but he says with the high rate of
divorce and the experience he has had living in a polygamous
home, he doesn’t want the hassle of a divorce if we ever split
up. Everyone around me is married, but my man simply refuses.
I feel so rejected, we don’t live together. Do you think he’s using
me?" (Copied from Vanguard Newspaper)